How many chances are too many? This is a line that I never know is there. There are so many grey areas that I don't even bother anymore. Unfortunately that allows people to walk all over me. I think, or I have started to learn, that what it comes down this wether or not you start to feel bad about yourself for how many chances you give someone.
Just because they were a good friend to you once upon a time doesn't mean that they are always going to keep that role during the friendship. People are going to fail you, and you are going to fail others. It is not up to us to judge those who fail us, but to move onto better things and better relationships. I know everyone thinks that we will find friends that will last forever and it would be fine and dandy if we did but that would mean that we would have no growth as humans and who wants that? I personally think that people that walk through my life have a purpose and once they fulfill that purpose they move on to better things and better people.
But what does that mean for chances? How many times can someone wrong you before you realize that your purpose in their life has been completed?
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